As I journey through life, I’ve encountered numerous friends—some reliable and sincere, while others merely a fleeting glimpse of their true character. Often, I’ve entrusted my heart and friendship to those who turned out to be superficial, guarded by the scars on my heart, never allowing anyone too close.
Two years ago, I made the mistake of allowing a so-called friend to get close. That wound still bleeds today, the knife having cut deep. I entrusted her with my deepest secrets and precious time, hoping that trusting another woman would bring positivity into my life. How wrong I was! She not only betrayed the essence of friendship but also manipulated my words to harm me. She transitioned from a friend to an enemy.
Strangely, even though she tore a part of my heart, if she were to call and ask for help, my answer would be yes. Some might consider me crazy for remaining loyal to someone who betrayed me, but here’s how I see it: if I let her toxic behavior corrupt my own, I’d become no different from her—a toxic betrayer of friendship.
Throughout life, we sometimes entrust a piece of our heart to someone, only for them to trample all over it. It’s not their actions that define our character but our reactions. I choose the higher road, remaining a true and loyal human being, holding myself to a higher moral standard than that of a betrayer. I won’t let a person’s betrayal change my essence and trustworthiness. I’ll remain true to who I am, minimizing the damage caused.
Yes, my heart has been hurt, but my character remains intact. The harm they inflicted had little impact on my life. So, as a reminder to those who forget: Acid does more damage to the vessel in which it’s carried than to what it’s poured upon. When you encounter someone who betrays a friend, remember they are a vessel carrying acid, damaged internally, and unlikely to be a good friend. Keep peace in your heart and your character intact by minimizing the damage from people who carry this corrosive substance. Draw closer to those who share your morality and, most importantly, love yourself enough to stay true to who you are.”
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